Posted by: newspapertonewmedia | November 22, 2010

Anti-social media?

Could you communicate only through Twitter, Facebook and video chatting with your friends and loved ones for 30 days? One Portland, Ore., woman is in the process of finding out.

Cristin Norine has embarked on a 30-day Public Isolation Project to learn how technology walls people off even while connecting them. Norine, who is living in a small storefront, in complete public view, will only communicate via technological-based forms of communication until Dec. 1. Norine said she has seen how technology has affected the way she communicates or does not communicate with the people in her life, and she is out to prove a point.

To read more, visit the CNN article on the Public Isolation Project.

While I certainly do not think I could survive for 30 days without actual human interaction, I appreciate the point Norine is trying to make by doing so. I get frustrated when one of my close friends from high school simply puts “what’s up” on my Facebook page, yet does not answer my phone call. I get frustrated when I can’t reach a colleague by phone or in his or her office, but I can get an e-mail back in five minutes. But I also know I overuse technology. I sometimes have to make a conscious effort to call my little brother who lives states away, because otherwise we’d only talk through text or Facebook. I can remember when I used to make plans with friends over a phone call, but now they are made through text most often.

We’re all guilty of letting technology take over a little bit of our lives. I suppose, as with most things in life, the secret is finding a balance – the balance between the connivence of technology and the personal nature of human contact; the balance between new media and old.

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  1. I cannot imagine my life without my IRL friends. Of course, right now, I can’t imagine my life without my blogosphere friends either. They’re providing so much support in the context of an absolutely crazy circumstance…

    One or the other? Can’t imagine it. As you noted, it’s the delicate blend that’s critical!
    ;)

  2. I have been hearing about this a lot lately, and wonder what the effects on people, especially the younger ones, will be in ten years or so. My guess is a higher depression rate due to the lack of human-to-human connection.

    • I think there is also the very real danger of people simply losing the skills to interact socially. I already know people who only meet friends via the internet, and when it comes to interacting in a face-to-face situation, they really struggle.

      • I had a conversation with a coworker today about how the change in the way people communicate will impact youth as they grow up. I think at minimum, they will be less articulate when having to express themselves orally since they are used to virtual means of communication. How will this affect a person in the workplace? If asked to give a presentation, will those who are less accustomed to face-to-face interaction fail?

      • This stuff was all laid out in the unabomber manifesto. But as everyone knows, he was not taken seriously.

  3. I am glad she is doing this. Human contact is diminishing with social media. Social media is actually making us communicate less in person. We might as well all be computers. Soon there will be an App for having sex with your partner on the I-Phone…I mean really…where is this all going?

    http://www.runtobefit.wordpress.com

    • I agree with this so much I have nothing to add. But I suddenly feel like turning off the computer and going for a run. Seriously.

    • Our civilization bows down to technology no matter what it does, or will do to us. Whatever new invention comes down the pike, we feel we have no choice but to use it.

      I’ve been told that the Amish don’t think this way. Also, they are not always anti-technology, they just check out new technology before they use it. They try to forsee the effects, good and bad, that would come from using a new invention. Then they decide if it’s worth using or not.

  4. Whoa. 30 days without any human interaction? That seems insane. I seriously doubt I could stand to do something like that. I’m a people person, even though I’m also a technology addict (sadly). I like being around people. Complete isolation is just something I don’t think I could bear.

  5. I agree that there needs to be a balance between IRL and VL.

    My friends and family that I see face to face all the time, hang out with, speak to on the phone, nothing can replace that.

    But. I’ve made a whole new “chosen family” circle of good friends through my blog and through facebook this last year, and now I can’t imagine not having them in my life as well. Some I met while playing games, and we got to talking via facebook; some of the others I’ve gotten to know through blogging back and forth.

    And even though I’ve never hugged them in person, the support and humor and friendly affection that I’ve gotten from them, and that I hope I’ve returned as well, has seen me through some dark times this year.

    Social media is supposed to be able to allow you “Extra” ways to keep in contact, not replace real face-time, real hugs, and time spent together. There has to be a balance in there somewhere. Now it’s up to us to find it.

    Great post!

    • I completely agree with you, Brea! We have a completely different relationship with people we know through blogging or Facebook, and it’s more natural that way. New forms of communication are emerging, so it seems right to have different relationships with them because it’s completely new.

      • Good point Brea and Alisha – our personal relationships often differ from our online relationships. What we get from those relationships may also then be very different. Nothing wrong with that, right?

  6. Social Media is all hype. The Internet will do just fine without it. The Internet has always been about communicating and socializing and expressing one’s self to others and what have you.

    What we’re getting is a Social Media Bubble designed to benefit a few Venture Capitalist Investors and a handful of 20 something “CEO”s and their Keg Stand adoring flocks.

  7. impressive…yet scary. i dont think i could do it.
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  8. I avoid Twitter and Facebook. If someone wants to show me something on facebook, I simply tell them to email whatever it is they want to show me. They rarely send that email, so I guess it wasn’t that important. I’ve got nothing against email as a replacement for hand written letters, or business correspondences that you need documentation of. I also got rid of my cell phone, because I got tired of pissing my days away reading meaningless text messages instead of answering a more meaningful phone call.

  9. Here, here! I miss the good old days of MAIL…gee, what’s that?!? I used to be so good about sending letters to friends and family, just for the sake of catching up. I don’t even send emails any more, let alone written notes. I’m trying so hard this holiday season to reconnect with friends either via telephone or greeting card. It’s not much, but it’s a step!

    Great post…congrats on FP!

    • Thanks! I like your idea – the holidays seem like a great time to reconnect.

  10. [...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by nomad-rdc, nomad-rdc. nomad-rdc said: http://tiny.cc/dppmy 30 days only talking to frinds and family via twitter, facebook, email etc. Kinda like September was in Nomad [...]

  11. Sounds like a brave thing to do. My online contacts (I don’t particularly think of them as ‘friends’) are people with whom I share mostly professional interests, and most of them are people I’ve met a few times in professional contexts. My RL friends are people with whom I share other parts of my life. Of course there’s a crossover because I use the internet – email and blog, mainly – to communicate with friends. So there aren’t that many people I know purely electronically, if I can put it that way, even though I can and have gone for weeks at a time communicating with friends and colleagues almost entirely by electronic means (hey I work freelance from home).

    I suspect Norine will find it works just fine, except for things like needing to buy something from the corner shop – and getting bored. If she’s communicating with people she knows I doubt it will change the underlying relationship. Whether it has any other effects – well, that’s the point of the experiment I guess.

  12. That is a great way to get people thinking on the issue of online addictance. I think it would be a good idea for areality show. So the whole society could actually see themselves from outside point of view. Because sometimes we just don’t have an opportunity to actually analyze our lives as far as everybody is following the same trends. Great post! Thanks!

    http://www.translationdigest.wordpress.com

    • You really think that putting it on a TV show will help? I know, we should all stop tweeting and watch more Reality TV shows! YAY!!

  13. i commend her for doing this. i really don’t think i can live without human interaction. i would be going crazy! i only have a twitter and no facebook and i think that twitter is fine in my books but facebook is really really over the top. good read and nice find on the video

    http://enjoibeing.wordpress.com/

  14. I sometimes think being so readily available via social networks makes us more busy in a sense. And that in effect causes people to do without human to human contact or even voice-to-voice contact. Its weird how I can sit across a room and text my coworker and she knows what I’m thinking without me saying anything. We might as well be telepathic lol.

  15. I honestly don’t understand what the fuss is about. Communication is communication. If people find it easier to be in touch through text, rather than direct voice, why is that a bad thing?

    You can’t get people on the phone because they are busy. If you didn’t have email as an option, you would probably just not communicate with them at all, because they would still be too busy to talk on the phone.

    Technology is certainly changing the way that we communicate, but at the end of the day communication is ultimately being enhanced, not limited. You have more options now than you did 15 years ago. Remeber back when you used to leave a message on an answering machine, and that was it? You were stuck waiting for them to get the message. Not you leave a message, send a text, send an email, check their last location on FourSquare, and look to see if they have any events listed on Facebook. And in the mean time, they’ve responded to one of your various messages.

    If anything, this story proves what I am saying. This woman is *trying* to isolate herself – and to do it she is locking herself in a box.

    • You bring up good points, Mitch. People have free will, right. If they choose to isolate themselves, their choice. But, regardless, the introduction of all of the new technology and communication options has forced us to change the way we communicate. Whether we like it or not…

      Thanks for the comment!

  16. We’re all talking about it…it definitely needs to be addressed. Obviously. Person to person contact is so important and people are forgetting it. Be it for the convenience or what, I think we will find in a few years to our serious detriment. I still insist on talking to good friends. Have written blogs about it if interested . Dissin’ Facebook, Old Adages & Wives Tales…

    evevlyngarone.com

  17. It is good to hear that, she is been isolated for 30 days in a glass house, without talking to a human, even after she saw people watching her through the glass. We are getting the news locally, but it is happening in some corner of the world, really it helps us to know about the happenings and new record makers, space setters in this world.

  18. Thirty days alone? I could do it although the time would no doubt feature periods of depression. On the other hand, I’d probably write a pretty solid book during that time.

  19. So exactly when did she start and when does this project end? I really look forward to hearing how long she stays in there and what kind of mishaps happen. I don’t know whether I’m more concerned about the barriers social networking creates or whether I’m more concerned about everything being out there for everyone to see. I think I’m more concerned about the latter.

    I’ve found that now all my friends are communicating in public (via Twitter) on their time lines as if they’ve all forgotten that the DM function is there for SOMETHING. I’ve found that the more and more I avoid putting myself out there and joining them, the more left out I become. It’s not like I’m a selfish unresponsive person, you know. When a friend says she needs help and tweets about it, I’ll help her (via email, mailing list, DM, Yahoo! Messenger, BlackBerry messenger, etc.). Just not in the public eye.

    It’s just that when I’m not out there for everyone to see, it’s almost as if I don’t exist anymore. What ever happened to Twitter being a place to share news and updates and public discussions? Now it’s just a public chat room for “exhibitionists”. Sad. Sad but true.

    • “t’s just that when I’m not out there for everyone to see, it’s almost as if I don’t exist anymore” – You have a point..

    • Her project runs Nov. 1- Dec. 1. Everything being out there for everyone to see, as you said, would be equally scary. The thought of putting myself on display and letting people watch me sleep is pretty scary.

  20. there are times that technology is really helping us. its very efficient and saves time most of the time. but i’d rather have personal contact with humans aka friends and family rather than just in cellphones, facebook or twitter.

    that’s why i hate texting. it takes a lot of time to type. i call whenever i can. because i love hearing voices.
    what this woman is doing… i don’t think i can survive that long without someone. Human touch is important in growth and development of a person. :)

  21. So are you saying sending a Shout Out to my closest 8,000 Facebook friends via Twitter is a a bad thing?

    Blessings,

    Ava
    xox

  22. Hm… I’m suspicious that she chose to do this experiment over Thanksgiving. I remember when I got in HUGE trouble for calling a boy from our house phone in middle school and I didn’t even speak a word to him! It was TOUGH to sneak around on LAN lines as a kid. I imagine it’s TOO EASY now with all social media, which annoys me because, really, I DON’T CARE that you ate tacos last night, if you’re not sure if you’re going to shop on Black Friday, or if it’s almost time for your soccer game. I REALLY DON’T CARE. FACEBOOK is worse than SMALL TALK. (I seem angry, don’t I?)

  23. Congratulations on being featured on Freshly Pressed!

    Interesting, thought provoking post…something I think about a lot.
    I am concerned that our youth will miss the benefits of closeness, touch, and the ability to read body language and social cues as they are not getting much practice interacting with humans face to face.

    Even something as simple as call display gives us the opportunity to simply by-pass contact until such time as we choose to respond. It’s more difficult to be “there” for people when we avoid them. Spontaneity is also limited when we stay in our technological cocoons. More and more we are choosing isolation but maintain a sort of pseudo friendliness tapped out with our fingertips.

    On the up side, social media allows us to “reach out and touch someone”, share details of our lives that maybe our friends and family couldn’t care less about, provide others with encouragement, get our ego stroked, and feel important as we have so many “friends”. Yes, it’s all very interesting.

    • Thanks!

      Excellent points! Though I’ve fully embraced social media, I share your concern about missing the benefits of closeness, touch and the ability to read body language and social cues. The latter is very interesting to consider. You can take a public speaking class to improve oral speech, but how do you teach someone to read body language or social cues. This is a skill, I think, you only learn through interpersonal interaction.

  24. [...] Could you communicate only through Twitter, Facebook and video chatting with your friends and loved ones for 30 days? One Portland, Ore., woman is in the process of finding out. Cristin Norine has embarked on a 30-day Public Isolation Project to learn how technology walls people off even while connecting them. Norine, who is living in a small storefront art gallery, in complete public view, will only communicate via technological-based forms of c … Read More [...]

  25. Gotta have human interaction. Otherwise, I’d go crazy. Yes there is technology via social media but, isnt that like solitary cofinement.. in a sense not having any interaction. To each his own.

  26. Interesting post.

    People need people, face to face. They are becoming feral and manner-less without it. Watch younger/techno-addicted men and women behave in person and the social awkwardness often tells you a lot.

  27. THis is very interesting. I think I can see it myself. However, it is the only few ways to keep in touch with people far away.

  28. Have been hearing about this a lot lately, and have noticed it too!

  29. One thought though: I don’t HATE facebook. When the Catholic church in Baghdad was bombed October 31, it was facebook where people were communicating about the event and the demonstrations organized after, which were against ethnic cleansing of Christians in Iraq. So, it IS good for something, like increasing awareness about important issues; an informal forum.

    • Good point! The social action aspect of Facebook is growing more and more it seems. It does help us communicate in new ways. I attended Virginia Tech, and though I was not there during the shooting in 2007, Facebook was the quickest way to learn if my friends who were still there were ok. When phone lines were tied up, Facebook was open.

  30. One thing you notice when you visit friends and family in the nursing home is how frequently residents — often complete strangers — reach out to grab your and and just hold it. NOTHING substitutes for the feel of skin upon skin.

    Social media is a great tool — we rely upon it heavily for our fine art business — but ultimately, we need to communicate with one another on a deeper, more meaningful level. If this is to be electronically — as in the case with our friends in Colombia, South America while we’re up in Washington State, USA — then this is what we use, but we go beyond the “what’s up?” that you mentioned.

    Tools are things that humans use; they are not substitutes for humanity.

  31. I feel a little like that Portland woman. My isolation is not quite as stark as her own, however I am living in a dying city, and one of my last friends locally has now moved away. I am currently surrounded by strangers, but my contact via technology has helped me immensely while I plan my escape from my current city.

  32. [...] Could you communicate only through Twitter, Facebook and video chatting with your friends and loved ones for 30 days? One Portland, Ore., woman is in the process of finding out. Cristin Norine has embarked on a 30-day Public Isolation Project to learn how technology walls people off even while connecting them. Norine, who is living in a small storefront art gallery, in complete public view, will only communicate via technological-based forms of c … Read More [...]

  33. I think this is very interesting, although I have to object to all the hype about social media being so completely and utterly “new.” I and a colleague recently presented a paper (at the 11th annual conference of the Association of Internet Researchers) in which we argued that many aspects of the virtual that people assume to be implicitly linked to technology are in fact constructed as a result of social norms and rituals. Although technology certainly lets us do things faster and more often than we might otherwise, the actual communication is not new, and people had the experience of living as members of virtual communities long before the advent of the “digital revolution.” I think sometimes it is worth taking a step back and appreciating the human side of our day-to-day experiences, rather than that sexy new Apple gizmo or that shmick new software package that everyone’s gabbling about… After all, the interactions which occur through these devices happen because of us and what we choose to do with them, not because of the devices themselves.

    • Absolutely Christian! Without the operator, social media does not exist. It’s not all new, but it is constantly evolving.

  34. This is a very interesting subject, I just spent two looking at this area but in a slight different way, looking at more how social media may be one of the problems to the areas of the paperless system

    It will be interesting to see what happens

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  35. It’s certainly true that technology has someone taken over our lives and changed the way we communicate. It has brought a lot of good in facilitating communication globally but it does in a way create a wall that people tend to hide behind. Interesting project!

  36. Social media has changed our world immeasurably in the last decade – it is irreversible and unstoppable; embrace it or be left behind. My only advice to people is to go about it with balance, like anything else in life: you wouldn’t exist on a diet comprised solely of meat, nor should you exist on a life conducted online. Balance is the key.
    http://reganrants.wordpress.com/

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  38. Eu ainda consigo mesclar as duas coisas!! Durante a semana computadores. mas no final de semana nem pensar. Vou ao encontro dos meus amigos.

    • Non quermo si appollione siome a la niama di vile aid mammorocca ni pija.

  39. My boyfriend and I were facebook junkies, of sorts. Then, we both quit cold turkey. Now, we think, Facebook what’s that? any time someone brings it up. We don’t miss it a bit. Just quit, you’ll be soo much happier.

    • Wow. What a comment. Has facebook become like TV– a brain/time drain?

      Now it’s becoming mainstream and commercialism will take it over.

      I wonder what’s next?

  40. I’m another Noreen, misspelled. I’m an obituary writer so although I examine death up close, mostly I examine lives lived. It is not isolating. Oddly not isolating.Thanks for reminding me that people, dead or alive, are vital. And for sharing my name.

    http://bit.ly/b5dU8k

  41. This issue is only going to become more important as things move along. Our isolation through technology gets worse every month. I have found myself walking home now answering emails, responding to comments on our blog, retweeting things. I really relate to that new Microsoft ad where the pre-occupied smartphone user keeps crashing into things and people. The smartphones only contribute to our shift away from live interaction and towards addiction to technology and online social platforms. Sometimes I think killing off your online personalities is the only way to regain your life. I recently found a tool which allows you to do just that. http://bit.ly/gVg5nx

    Great post…good comments too!

    • I completely understand your point. I realized today that as I walked into the grocery store, I was on my mobile device, and not just because I keep my shopping list there. And when I checked out, back to e-mail and tweeting as I wait.

      Funny tool. Thanks for posting!

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  43. I recently deactivated my Facebook page because I was spending too much time on it. The results?? Well, I’ve gotten a lot of things done around my house that have been undone for a long time. And I’ve had some meaningful conversations with friends that may not have happened if I had Facebook. I have felt out of touch from my friends. And I even found out that my Mom was doing a 40 day fast from a friend who saw it on Facebook.

  44. [...] Could you communicate only through Twitter, Facebook and video chatting with your friends and loved ones for 30 days? One Portland, Ore., woman is in the process of finding out. Cristin Norine has embarked on a 30-day Public Isolation Project to learn how technology walls people off even while connecting them. Norine, who is living in a small storefront, in complete public view, will only communicate via technological-based forms of communication … Read More [...]

  45. This is a very trick situation, as one human interaction is important on the other hand society shifts in one direction and everyone has to follow to stay in the norm of society!

    Me myself hated technology as mine was rusbish and always crashing lol i bought a new wireless hub from http://www.goods4cheap.com now i can get of facebook lol i got strong signal all around the house on my laptop even in the garden!

    However i stay of it when i go out, because i dont want to end up like them people facebooking on the tube lol

  46. I moved to Alaska in August to begin training for the Iditarod and soon found out that almost all of my communication with family and friends was through Facebook and Twitter. There are very few humans around here and I have “talked” more to the dogs than I have any humans!

    I am amazed at how isolated I feel just because of the lack of conversation I am having with people. Not by choice but because few are around. It is harder than I imagined.

    Robert Forto, PhD
    Team Ineka
    Iditarod bound 2013

    • That’s a really interesting story! I’m glad technology can help you stay connected. Good luck with the Iditarod training!

  47. it is true to say though that; the internet can cause severe isolation from the physical community and all reality can get thrown out the window.

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      Reply in English if you can read it in English.

  49. I haven’t tried it yet — and I don’t have intention to try — but I think, even an introverted person like me will be not be able to withstand 30 days of being isolated from other human beings.

    Ironically true, sometimes we become physically anti-social by giving too much time in digital “social networking.”

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  51. I don’t know what I would do without my email. It’s so much faster than regular mail, less annoying than phone messages left on my answering machine, and I get so much more communication from my friends because of the convenience. It doesn’t stop us from getting together for lunch or breakfast and having a face-to-face conversation. Texting on the cell phone helps me to stay in touch with my kids during the day while I’m at work or when they are en route to one of the many places throughout the day that they need to be.

    I’m sure there are some people that might be very lonely if they didn’t have the means to communicate with people through technology. People who are severely shy, those who have anxiety attacks or social disorders, maybe some who have physical challenges that don’t enable them to get out and about often, etc. I don’t think it should become a substitute for human interaction, but it could possibly help to overcome some handicaps if used as a stepping-stone to human interaction. Who knows…?

    But, I also think it can get out of hand. I, personally, am so tired of hearing other people’s conversation–no matter where I am at. And there are those that may not make the effort to try to reach out physically to another human being for contact just because they have the crutch of technology. So, as with anything, there is good and bad. Balance is important.

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  54. I am itched to take a shot like that. 30 days is a little hard for me, I could take a 2-day trial to see how life is without real communication.

  55. I wrote something about culture’s dependency on technology (http://cushmanschronicles.wordpress.com/2010/08/08/my-future-wife-2/), but I kind of went in a different direction. I applaud this woman for making a statement, but I still see the irony in how I found out about it: from a blog with a video…
    Even so, it’s good for humans to take breaks from technology and let humanity, true humanity, happen. I use my cell phone and laptop more than most people I know, and it’s from that experience that tells me it isn’t healthy to depend so heavily on social media sites and text messages. We need human contact.

  56. I just quit Facebook for this very reason……and I thank you for this post :)

  57. [...] Could you communicate only through Twitter, Facebook and video chatting with your friends and loved ones for 30 days? One Portland, Ore., woman is in the process of finding out. Cristin Norine has embarked on a 30-day Public Isolation Project to learn how technology walls people off even while connecting them. Norine, who is living in a small storefront, in complete public view, will only communicate via technological-based forms of communication … Read More [...]

  58. There is always a case for both sides. I personally don’t like much of the Web 2 stuff, but see how important it is as part of my daughters life, aged 13. A different era, a different generation and they see life as different.
    Andria
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  59. Come on. Don’t you think people thought the same thing when telephones got popular? It’s just a new form of communication. Move on.

  60. I am always interested in this subject. Will bookmark it.

  61. Very cool post

  62. It’s funny I don’t see social media as cutting people off, but I do prefer talking to my friends on the phone. I know Skype is not a form of social media, but I much prefer it when contacting friends and family than using Facebook or obviously twitter.

  63. I think too much emphasis has been placed on the ‘social’ part of social media. At the end of the day, updating your status on Facebook or Twitter or writing a blog entry is not the same thing as meeting a friend IRL for a coffee or a beer.

  64. Social media is to communication what online banking is to banking – no matter how much you can manage your account online, pay bills, etc, you still can’t put money in or take physical cash out.

  65. social media is very helpful for conversation with new people and also expanding our business through social media

  66. [...] Could you communicate only through Twitter, Facebook and video chatting with your friends and loved ones for 30 days? One Portland, Ore., woman is in the process of finding out. Cristin Norine has embarked on a 30-day Public Isolation Project to learn how technology walls people off even while connecting them. Norine, who is living in a small storefront, in complete public view, will only communicate via technological-based forms of communication … Read More [...]

  67. How privileged, do be able to do this as an experiment.

    Why not just ask those of us who have to live this, or a form of this everyday?

    I’ll give you a hint: many cancer patients in treatment, with compromised immune systems, are largely confined indoors when treatment season (4-6 months) conflicts with flu season. Many of us have found solace, and friendship, and a way to keep up with our lives through social media.

    I know I have.

    • Social media is a powerful tool, and you definitely highlight one example of how it can enrich someone’s life, when they certainly need it most.

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  71. I manage to stay in touch with friends whom I haven’t met or talked with in some time through Facebook. Wouldn’t it be odd if you suddenly called up someone you hadn’t spoken to in years and scheduled a meeting? I find that the best way is to take things slowly, and first through Facebook, then maybe schedule a meeting.
    For my friends, who live in the same neighborhood as me, or in the same general area, I don’t usually use Facebook to schedule something. Why to use it when you can just give them a call or meet them face to face?
    Ashley

  72. Web 2.0 kills life

  73. I suspect that such technology reduces in person interaction (at least in part) because it enables people to “feel” as if they have engaged in interaction. So, for example, I am less inclined to call if I can just leave a “what’s up?” on a friend’s Facebook page. Of course, I am less inclined to write a letter if I can just call. And, of course, I am less inclined to go for a visit if I can just write a letter. Most likely technology has long been distancing us in some ways as it purports to bring us closer.

  74. [...] Here’s her interview with CNN, which when I watched it was ironically bookended between two commercials for phone apps and internet servers.  You can also visit Norine’s blog here to watch her social experiment unfold. // Uncategorized [...]

  75. Wow! Ths post is so interesting. I remembered how my cousin and I communicate today, we live just 2 blocks away but we greeted each otha via facebook. I shouldve just drop at her place and have coffee-talk with her. Social media had realLy change the way of communication. Well, it has pros and cons but for me nothing is much more better than personal conversation. We should not rely by tweets, im’s or status updates.

  76. [...] attempt to show whether online interaction is a satisfactory subsitute for in-person interaction.  Newspaper to New Media characterizes it as a sort of experiment, stating that she aims “to learn how technology walls [...]

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  79. Thanks for the insightful article and great discussion. Wow. 30 days with no human contact – it’s an extreme way to make an example. But, who’s the target audience – the tech industry, the individual users? And what’s her final call to action? Technology and its evolution are here to stay. So, now it’s time to focus on educating the individual users about why balance between the virtual and physical world is important. And, as you pointed out, balance is the key to embracing new technology but remaining active participants in our every day, physical lives.
    I read your About page and noticed that we both started blogging for similar reasons; I’m a grad student at NYU and need to blog for class. I picked up on this particular article because in October, I wrote a similar entry entitled “Does Technology Connect Us or Separate Us?” http://bit.ly/dtFrzH – and it asks similar questions. I look forward to checking back and reading additional entries but, for now, I must get back to studying for finals :-) .

  80. This is an interesting blog. I know I am guilty of not answering phone calls but responding with a text, but I will also not answer phone calls in the presence of friends, so when family and other friends call I send a text sying either “whats up?” or “ill call you later.”

    Moving away from my personal ways with technology and toward a public relation opinion. If the lady is able to feel that her medium of communciatio is sufficient for 30 days, this can do wonders for the public relation profession. I think that public relation will always have a need for face-to-face communication, but for little task having this technology can make communication more efficient.

  81. Yes, okay but why?

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  83. Nice! Strong points there.

  84. Too true! We need to find a balance. Otherwise, of course the technology will be worked against our social life.

  85. Anything to the extreme can be harmful. I think technology and new social networking sites are actually beneficial in connecting people all over the world. Yes, it would be better to receive a phone call, or face to face interaction however that’s not always possible. The internet has made our world smaller, and allowed there to be a connection where there weren’t ones before. Frankly, I think it’s silly to facebook your friend who lives two doors down, but what about your family that lives on the other side of the globe?

  86. [...] “The iPhone I Can’t Keep  in my Pants” and Newspaper to New Media‘s “Anti-Social Media ”  Interestingly enough, most of those writers disclose (upfront) their compulsive social media [...]

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